Structure during
meetings helps girls to learn and makes meeting
organization much easier for leaders. Rules of the
room need to be clear and consistent: We go here; we
don’t go there. We can touch this; we don’t touch
that.
If your daughter needs discipline during a
meeting, have another leader handle it. Resist the
urge to get involved or tell the leader what to say or
do. That way, your daughter’s correction comes from a
leader, just like everybody else’s. |
The Quiet Sign (going silent and
holding up your hand) is only effective if you stop talking. Saying
“Quiet, please!” at the same time you put your hand up defeats the
purpose. The hand-up means be quiet when you see it, and hold your
hand up, too. You aren’t
responsible for siblings of any Daisy during the meeting. Except
during special family events, siblings do not hang out or
participate with the troop. |
Dismissal time can be orderly,
but some leaders have trouble at first because girls bolt from the
activity when a parent comes into the room. This goes away if you
establish a routine for end-of-meeting time and explain it to the
parents. First girls clean up, then they sit in a circle with all but one leader, who waits by door for
family adults. Girls are then dismissed from the circle one by one
as each adult arrives. This helps to keep order and assures that
each child goes home with the right adult.
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